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Sunday, 3 December 2023

Throw away the key

 There is something I don't understand . Putting it simply - it drives me crazy.

Every other day you put on the TV or read about someone shooting a person,  shooting a group of people, knife attacks and the like.

Then if they are lucky, the cops get hold of them alive and take them into custody.

Following me ?

Ok- now begins the tomfoolery. 

They are kept in jail and deliberations begin IF they are guilty or not.

Where does this IF  come in.

Then if they can't afford a lawyer, the state provides then one. 

Now that's a sweet and generous gesture if ever there was one!

It now becomes the perogative of that lawyer to DEFEND the rascal and try and either get him out of prison or get his sentence reduced to the minimum. 

The same guy who has caused untold misery- has taken a life or lives of innocents and often of kids too, now hopes to be set free! He has ruined people's lives and livelihood.  He has scarred others for life.  Does he deserve any mercy ? 

If all goes as per plan , he is often out, either freed or on parole before one can say Jack Robinson or whatever!.

Reports tell you he was on a 'Watch list' of some agency or the other. Or else he had just come out of prison or mental asylum.  At times he was supposed to be undergoing therapy.

Am I missing something ?

Who was watching him ?

Why was he not being watched properly ?

Why was he out of prison?

If he had mental issues and people knew he did - pray what the hell was he doing with a deadly weapon? 

Out on parole? Who gave him parole in the first place. 

We surely live in a strange world. 

Please don't tell me he deserves to be defended .

That's a load of bunk and balderdash. 

These imbeciles need to be put away for good.  No parole whatsoever.  

100 life sentences. 

Better still , deposit them all on some vague uninhabited island and let them do whatever they please with themselves and each other.

He or she doesn't make a difference .

What's with our world ?

IT'S BEGINNING TO LOOK AT LOT LIKE CHRISTMAS

 Listening to Christmas carols

Somehow makes me sentimental.

But they are a staple in December. 

Jim Reeves, Daniel O'donnell

And the rest.

Today was very relaxing 

In the middle of an extended break

No suit and tie for once.

Sitting out in the morning sun 

Pottering around the little garden

While planning what to bake

How and when .


Ingredients to be sourced

And preparations to be made.

Nothing too fancy this year.

So..

Will I bake or will she?

Doing it together is what often happens 

Followed by arguments 

As to the method to use

The weight of ingredients 

And what to mix first!


Was thinking back a few decades

When people sent and received

Innumerable Christmas cards 

And of the wizzened up postman 

who did a big 'Salam' on Christmas morning

When he delivered the last few cards

And got a 'baksheeh' 

And a plate of goodies.

He was followed by the 'dhobi' 

And a few faithful helpers.


We would string up the Christmas cards

Across the mantlepiece. 

And count them too

They added to the Christmasy feeling. 


When I was a young brat,

Helping mince the peels

And decorate the tree

Was my job- partly .

Fun times.

Some of you may not know what 

a mincer is or a mantlepiece either !

It doesn't matter .

Those are memories I always cherish.


Xmas and New years 

Makes  me nostalgic 

And I think of you !


And please don't let me start

On the 'Auld lang syne'

Not a big fan of it either.

I've seen people almost 'tear up' 


The holiday season

Is round the corner

Good cheer and good wishes.

Wednesday, 22 November 2023

What has the school got to offer

                                         What has the school got to offer 

I have spent over four decades in Education, and they have been the best years of my life – figuratively and metaphorically speaking.  Probably, and by a rough estimate, I have met thousands of parents and interacted with a few thousand pupils since I became a teacher.

I have also visited quite a few schools, in different parts of the world. Many provide excellent education, some are good, while some are just about okay.

Here’s a thought that came to me.

Whenever parents visit a school, prior to admission, one sees them walking around and looking excitedly at the building.

They ask some generic questions, but by and large, they seem most concerned and visibly impressed with what the school has to offer by way of facilities. So, it usually starts with: -

What Board is the school affiliated with?

What is the fee structure?

What is the testing and promotion procedure?

And then quickly moves to: -

Is there a swimming pool and/or a gymnasium?

What about an auditorium? How many does it seat?

Can I see the kindergarten playroom?

What are the sizes of the classrooms?

How many laboratories and Libraries are there in the school?

Is there school transport?

Are there canteen facilities?

Is there a playing field?

These are all very pertinent questions that must be asked. However, the conversation is always about facilities first and then the core subjects – English, Mathematics, and Science. Surprisingly, the arts which include Dramatics, Dance, and Music are rarely talked about. I wonder why! Does it not strike you as odd?

If you think about it, aren’t those the periods that kids enjoy the most? Are we not killing creativity and taking the fun out of schooling?

Just let a pupil tell their parents that they want to become an actor, dancer, musician, singer, or writer and watch the colour drain from the parents’ faces- professions such as these are anathema to them – it’s almost as if they believe that their wards will be accursed or consigned to damnation or destruction if they even think of any of the above.

Another point of concern - Very rarely have I heard parents enquiring pointedly about the philosophy, vision, and experiences their child will have in school. Doesn't that count for something?

Shouldn’t all parents investigate a school’s approach to measuring student progress? Since it’s crucial to know how your child is doing, this is something you’ll want to keep your eye on- won't you? What about personalized learning, the disciplinary policy, community service, approach to Special education, and scope for gifted and talented pupils?  

Then there are other elements like life skills, respect, diversity, academic integrity, honesty, innovation, and career counseling that are taken for granted and rarely form part of the actual admission conversation. Now some may debate that these should form part of any good school, and so we do not need to ask about them.

However, one must only look around to see how many schools, the world over, put all their energies into advertising their infrastructure first, to get top billing!

Surprisingly that’s what attracts the bulk of parents. There are exceptions to the rule and by that, I mean not all schools use facilities as their trump card, and not all parents are gullible but that’s a minuscule number – I am talking about the majority here.

As I write this piece, I am reminded of my twenty years spent, at one of the premier educational institutions in India- The Bishop’s School, Pune.

When I think of the campus it makes me smile. It was not flashy by any standards. It was not posh either. However, it had an old-world charm about it – basic yet functional. The education provided was well above the expected standards, and the board results were proof of the same. The games and co-curricular programme were the icing on the cake. Over the years the school has produced men (and now even women) of integrity, who are driven, determined, and confident of holding their own in society. They are Gentlemen/ ladies in every sense of the word.

There are so many schools, all over the world, like Bishops, that deliver world-class education from very ordinary campuses.  

It's a mindset that needs to change.

Thursday, 26 October 2023

The gardener and me

 So his name is..... well let's just say it starts with the letter A.

I first met him when my daughter moved into her new premises and A was the gardener.

Short, of slight build and a million watt smile is how I would describe him. I would also add - rather talkative and a tad boastful of his accomplishments on the gardening front.  Also very simple .

My son in law and daughter seemed wonderstruck after he explained as to what he had  planned for their garden.

I didn't need any further persuasion and without so much as a little digging into his ' previous work experience' I appointed him too.

To be fair, my daughter and son in law's garden is pretty good.

You can read those last two words together or separately. 

Our little garden is another story. 

It's green; it's clean; and quite tidy.

However here is where my story takes a tiny bend.

Bear with me folks. If you've read till here then you must read on.

A digs when in the mood.

A plants when in the mood

A tends to the garden six days a week

But I don't believe A is a Gardner.

I am laying it bare for you to be the better judge.

If he is a Gardner- then I am an astronout.

He has a large blower with which he keeps the place clean. He spends about 7 minutes from the time he enters till he leaves. 

He hates my brother in law and probably gets irritated when told that he is not doing a good job.

My wife interacts with him more than me. She gives him fruit, biscuits and sweets etc as he looks malnourished. 

My interactions are only to pay him his salary and tell him occasionally that the garden does not look up to the mark. 

Mind you , he doesn't switch off the blower when I talk to him so I doubt he hears what I am saying because while I am speaking he is smiling and nodding.

When I go to pay him , he first pretends not to see me . Then when he does , he makes a sign to say ' put it on the garden table'.

I have threatened all and sundry that I will get rid of him , but that day has not come. A leads a charmed life I guess.

This morning he nearly lost his job.

I saw him entering, so went out to ask him why he hadn't brought the new plants I had asked him to.

I did this before he put on that noisy blower. 

He pointed to some miniscule plants and I almost exploded.

I then reminded him about what I wanted- the same plants he had bought for my daughter. He promised to do so.

Then came the icing on the cake.

He moved towards the tap.  

I couldn't fathom what he was doing .

(It has raised heavily for most of the night)

A connected the pipe and began watering the plants. 

I couldn't believe what I was seeing.

I walked out to confront him.

However I didn't have the heart to tell him he was being foolish and just stood transfixed as he watered every plant .

He gave them an extra dousing to prove to me he was doing his job .

Poor plants.

Poor me

God bless A!

Saturday, 21 October 2023

Confetti and you

 Have you ever had the opportunity to throw or sprinkle  confetti on anyone ? 

If you have, you would have noticed the following- :


It's unadulterated fun

You're usually smiling 

It's easy 

It costs you nothing 

When others see you doing it ,they often join in, and try to out do you.

The receivers smile and giggle

They feel you are there for them 

They feel loved and appreciated.


It's the same when you shower people 

With kindness! 


Try it

You won't regret it

And then there is the dopamine effect thrown in for good measure!

A win win situation all round .

MG

Friday, 20 October 2023

The Queen of hearts

 I heard it somewhere 

Or maybe the universe

Planted it in my mind

To use it as unsolicited advice.


It goes something like this...


Sing

And don't let them win.

Dance-  like your Cinderella. 

And even if you loose your glass slipper

At the stroke of midnight 

Or shoe was it ...


Keep running ......


And don't let the prince find you 

Till you really want him to.

Remember 

The handsomeness will fade 


And when he finally does find you 

And that slipper fits like a glove 

Make sure he treats you

Like the princess you are.


Not a duchess

Not a marchioness 

More like a queen


Cos that's what you were born to be.

The Queen of hearts 

Saturday, 14 October 2023

Sip your coffee silently

 Sip your coffee silently

And savour the moment.

It won't return .

Turn your life upside down

If you must 

Or inside out

If that's what you prefer.


But


Don't sit morose

And fade away

In your prison of gold 

That you've been placed in.


Stop being so gloomy.

A bright new day beckons.

It's there for the asking- 

Yours for the taking. 

So reach out 

And claim what's rightfully yours


Wake up and smell the roses

And put the ennui aside

It's just not you 


Start living the life you know

You deserve 

And don't leave it

For too late either.


For all you know,

It's not gold 

In the first place! 

And even if it is- 

You can't take it with you.