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Saturday, 6 December 2025

Chaos isn't the exception- it's the rule


 

CHAOS ISN’T THE EXCEPTION, IT’S THE RULE

A world in perpetual turmoil — and the art of staying afloat

Think life is orderly? Think again. The illusion collapses the moment you open a newspaper, switch on the television, or scroll through social media. Conflicts smoulder across continents, markets wobble, storms arrive without warning, and even the closest relationships reveal fragile fault lines under quiet pressure.

The headlines are appalling, the disruption horrific — and “alarming” is an understatement. Ceasefires seem plausible, treaties look inevitable, and diplomatic handshakes fill our screens. Then, almost inevitably, tensions flare again, old disputes reignite, and familiar fault lines crack open. We are dragged back to the uncomfortable truth: chaos is not an occasional visitor - It is the architecture of the modern world. Permanent solutions are the comforting illusions we cling to.

Chaos does not live only in capitals or newsrooms. It sits quietly in our homes, in our minds, in strained silences, whispered resentments, and unspoken expectations. Family ties strain over money, pride, inheritance, and ambition. Friendships buckle; marriages wobble; trust is fragile, and often, it is broken. Societies mirror the same pattern- promises rise, optimism surges, and then falters again. Yet the question persists: are we truly the rational animals we claim to be, or creatures still guided by fear, impulse, and survival instinct?

Television and social media do more than report disorder; they amplify it. They compress distance and time until every crisis feels immediate, personal, and overwhelming. Panic spreads faster than verification and outrage becomes habit. Reason often arrives late, if at all, leaving the world in what feels like a permanent state of tension.

Even religion, imagined as a sanctuary of calm, is not immune. Movements founded on unity stumble over power struggles, ego, and interpretation. Institutions built to heal sometimes divide. Faith, for all its beauty, has always carried seeds of human conflict.

This is not about right or wrong- It is not about blame or justice-:It is about rhythm. History rarely moves in straight lines. Peace appears, then pauses, retreats, and eventually returns. Order forms, it cracks and then reforms. The pattern repeats, stubborn and relentless. And one truth emerges:

“CHAOS ISN’T THE EXCEPTION — IT’S THE RULE.”

We can sit with fingers and toes crossed, hoping the storm will pass. We can tell ourselves relief is just one election, one agreement, or one miracle away, but hope alone is not a strategy. Experience shows the storm is not passing through; it is home , and if that feels bleak- there is always one enduring human habit to fall back on: blame. When all else fails, we can always blame Santa.

So how do we live in this world? 

Not by waiting for perfection, but by learning to manage imperfection. Strength lies in adaptation, and calm grows from discipline. We focus on what we can influence, and release what we cannot. We build resilience in ourselves, our habits, and our relationships.

And here is the uplifting truth: within the turbulence, life is still rich, full of connection, joy, love, and purpose. We cannot stop the storm, but we can stand firm, adapt, and find learn to live honest lives.

“The storm may rage, but human resilience shines—we keep moving, adapt, and find our own calm amid the chaos.”

Expecting chaos to disappear is like asking the ocean to stand still. It will not. But that does not mean we are powerless- That is not despair-:That is clarity. 

And in that clarity lies courage: the courage to live fully, to cherish moments of calm, and to thrive despite the storm




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