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Tuesday, 22 October 2019

You are a wise man


When your head rules your heart

And shopping is usually groceries

When need precedes want

And prayers are not only rosaries

When retaliation is not the solution

To some nasty accusation

When balm is more often used

Than some well perfumed lotion



When work becomes a joy

And no longer a tiring chore

When exercise is a necessity

And you need to strengthen your core

When napping takes precedence

Over all else, you used to do

You are a wise  man my friend

And getting older too


You are a wise man


When your head rules your heart

And shopping is usually groceries

When need precedes want

And prayers are not only rosaries

When retaliation is not the solution

To some nasty accusation

When balm is more often used

Than some well perfumed lotion



When work becomes a joy

And no longer a tiring chore

When exercise is a necessity

And you need to strengthen your core

When napping takes precedence

Over all else, you used to do

You are a wise  man my friend

And getting older too


Monday, 21 October 2019

SMOKING KILLS

Someone sent me a joke on WhatsApp this afternoon …. “One in four people look down on smokers- More proof that smoking stunts your growth” It sure got me thinking about smoking, cigarettes and my mother. My mum was a smoker and she smoked well into her late seventies. In fact, when the doctors forced her to stop, her health began to deteriorate. Strange but true. At the very outset let me make this clear – I DO NOT SMOKE. No cigarettes, no cigars, no ‘bidis’ for me. Have I ever smoked in my life? – Yes- one cigarette! This happened when I went to appear for my intermediate examination in my hometown Allahabad. The examination center was in one corner of the city and a friend and I landed there quite early in the morning. Strangely, almost everyone was smoking. Whether it was style, acting cool or just out of nervousness but every second boy was puffing away and revising from his notes at the same time. My friend seemed fascinated and I have to admit so was I. We felt we were sticking out like sore thumbs so we did what any insane friends would – strolled over to the small ‘corner shop’ and casually bought two Panama cigarettes. Having seen others do it umpteen times, we borrowed a lighter and ‘lit up’. We now felt part of the gang! Cigarettes in hand, we walked away and took a puff each. He had obviously smoked occasionally before so he inhaled deeply, smiled and seemed to be in seventh heaven while I almost choked. That said, the next few puffs were not too bad and soon we had both finished smoking our cigarettes. With a certain amount of exaggerated bravado, we flicked the butts away and proceeded to the examination hall. No sooner had the question paper been handed out than I began to feel extremely giddy and quite nauseous. I was also coughing uncontrollably & I wasted a good forty-five minutes trying to ensure that my eyes remained open and my head remained on my neck. That did not augur well for me and the results were rather disastrous. That day I said to myself that I would never smoke again and it has remained ever so! Smoking kills and the statistics are rather terrifying. Did a little reading and this is what I came up with. No, rocket science but seriously frightening. Smoking leads to disease and disability and harms nearly every organ of the body- it is also the leading cause of preventable death. I guess that is a no brainer. •Worldwide, tobacco use causes more than 7 million deaths per year. If the pattern of smoking all over the globe does not change, more than 8.2 million people a year will die from diseases related to tobacco use by 2030. •In 2018, $9.78 billion was spent on advertising and promotion of cigarettes and smokeless tobacco combined—more than $25 million every day, and more than $1 million every hour. If this is not pure insanity then what is! We have millions starving. About 15 % of adults smoke and approximately eight million adults die of smoking related illnesses each year •Each day, about 2200 people younger than 16 years smoke their first cigarette. Peer pressure plays a big role here and so does slick advertising, which glorifies smoking. The statutory warning, “Cigarette smoking is injurious to health “printed on all cigarette packets does little to deter smokers. Every fifth adult in the world smokes tobacco; however, there are large differences between men and women. More than one-third (35%) of men in the world smoke. Just over 6% of women do. The fact that men are more likely than women to smoke is reflected in health statistics: particularly lung cancer, for which smoking is a primary risk factor. We see that in every country in the world, men are more likely to die from lung cancer than women are. If you are a smoker – plan to give it up. The quicker – the better. YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY

SMOKING KILLS

Someone sent me a joke on WhatsApp this afternoon …. “One in four people look down on smokers- More proof that smoking stunts your growth” It sure got me thinking about smoking, cigarettes and my mother. My mum was a smoker and she smoked well into her late seventies. In fact, when the doctors forced her to stop, her health began to deteriorate. Strange but true. At the very outset let me make this clear – I DO NOT SMOKE. No cigarettes, no cigars, no ‘bidis’ for me. Have I ever smoked in my life? – Yes- one cigarette! This happened when I went to appear for my intermediate examination in my hometown Allahabad. The examination center was in one corner of the city and a friend and I landed there quite early in the morning. Strangely, almost everyone was smoking. Whether it was style, acting cool or just out of nervousness but every second boy was puffing away and revising from his notes at the same time. My friend seemed fascinated and I have to admit so was I. We felt we were sticking out like sore thumbs so we did what any insane friends would – strolled over to the small ‘corner shop’ and casually bought two Panama cigarettes. Having seen others do it umpteen times, we borrowed a lighter and ‘lit up’. We now felt part of the gang! Cigarettes in hand, we walked away and took a puff each. He had obviously smoked occasionally before so he inhaled deeply, smiled and seemed to be in seventh heaven while I almost choked. That said, the next few puffs were not too bad and soon we had both finished smoking our cigarettes. With a certain amount of exaggerated bravado, we flicked the butts away and proceeded to the examination hall. No sooner had the question paper been handed out than I began to feel extremely giddy and quite nauseous. I was also coughing uncontrollably & I wasted a good forty-five minutes trying to ensure that my eyes remained open and my head remained on my neck. That did not augur well for me and the results were rather disastrous. That day I said to myself that I would never smoke again and it has remained ever so! Smoking kills and the statistics are rather terrifying. Did a little reading and this is what I came up with. No, rocket science but seriously frightening. Smoking leads to disease and disability and harms nearly every organ of the body- it is also the leading cause of preventable death. I guess that is a no brainer. •Worldwide, tobacco use causes more than 7 million deaths per year. If the pattern of smoking all over the globe does not change, more than 8.2 million people a year will die from diseases related to tobacco use by 2030. •In 2018, $9.78 billion was spent on advertising and promotion of cigarettes and smokeless tobacco combined—more than $25 million every day, and more than $1 million every hour. If this is not pure insanity then what is! We have millions starving. About 15 % of adults smoke and approximately eight million adults die of smoking related illnesses each year •Each day, about 2200 people younger than 16 years smoke their first cigarette. Peer pressure plays a big role here and so does slick advertising, which glorifies smoking. The statutory warning, “Cigarette smoking is injurious to health “printed on all cigarette packets does little to deter smokers. Every fifth adult in the world smokes tobacco; however, there are large differences between men and women. More than one-third (35%) of men in the world smoke. Just over 6% of women do. The fact that men are more likely than women to smoke is reflected in health statistics: particularly lung cancer, for which smoking is a primary risk factor. We see that in every country in the world, men are more likely to die from lung cancer than women are. If you are a smoker – plan to give it up. The quicker – the better. YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY

Tuesday, 15 October 2019

I don't feel embarrassed saying it - I AM NOT A HANDY MAN .
No I am not useless - I can sing, play the guitar , play the drums ,  cook, bake a bit , love reading , enjoy writing and speaking too. I can be witty when in the mood and am told that I am good company etc.  but being handy around the house or anywhere for that matter is a big NO .
Am I proud of this fact?  - believe it or not I am smiling while typing so you have the answer to my question without me saying anything !
Does it make me feel any less a man - OMG I am smiling again .
I guess hammers, chisels, saws, greese ,
Let me give you some thoughts on this topic .
 
I don't feel embarrassed saying it - I AM NOT A HANDY MAN .
No I am not useless - I can sing, play the guitar , play the drums ,  cook, bake a bit , love reading , enjoy writing and speaking too. I can be witty when in the mood and am told that I am good company etc.  but being handy around the house or anywhere for that matter is a big NO .
Am I proud of this fact?  - believe it or not I am smiling while typing so you have the answer to my question without me saying anything !
Does it make me feel any less a man - OMG I am smiling again .
I guess hammers, chisels, saws, greese ,
Let me give you some thoughts on this topic .
 

Monday, 14 October 2019

Let's save cricket the blushes

The Lodha Committee was appointed by the Supreme Court of India on 22nd January 2015 to analyze and recommend implementable actions for improving the Board of Control for Cricket in India (BCCI)
One of its recommendations was that the so-called “old guard” should not be re - elected, obviously to enable fresh blood to be infused into the governing body of the game. Now, it does not require a very fertile imagination to conclude as to what the “Old Guards” were up to and why Justice Lodha came down heavily on them.
There was jubilation all round as “cleansing” was perceived but the same was short lived. If they could not rule the game and interfere at will, there had to be a loophole somewhere.
So what if they were over 70 years of age and hence illegible as per the new rules. Who was bothered about the “Cooling off period” that the committee recommended. If they were going to be put out to pasture, there had to be a better way to worm their way back in.
So now, their sons and daughters, son in laws and other family members , who may never have played cricket in their lives and have no clue about the game whatsoever , are the new Governors. Surely, this is a joke in poor taste.
Bengal, Saurashtra, Tamil Nadu, Himachal Pradesh and Gujarat all have close relatives of the “old guard” in the associations. The BCCI has one as well.
Therefore, what has changed? What cleansing has taken place? What improvements will we perceive? What has justice Lodha to say about this? What is anyone saying about this? Why is this proxy ruling being accepted ?
One may say that the positive aspect is that our men’s cricket team is doing well and bringing honours to the country but is that the answer we are looking for?.
Why can’t we have a clean system, free from petty politics where the best men get the job and the best players are in the various teams – selected purely on merit?
It is about time we had cricketers at the helm. Saurav Ganguly as Head of BCCI is a breath of fresh air. If cricket at all levels in the country is to improve & do well then we need more cricketers running the various associations and cricket boards.
We have seen dynasty rule flopping in other spheres – let's spare cricket the blushes !