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Saturday, 20 February 2021

You

 You

The untamed rivers are running their course.
And emptying themselves into the expansive, tempestuous seas
Only to refill and repeat the process afresh.
Day after day and night after night.
Yes – day after day and night after night.
The great horned owl hoots.
And the deadliest jaws hunt
And the weak are chased down and devoured mercilessly
It’s the circle of life.
Day after day and night after night
The scorching sun rises in the east, and sets in the west.
And the sequin – silver stars appear in the night- time sky.
And we gaze up and stare with wonder
At Polaris, Sirius, Antares and Rigel
Without even blinking our eyes
And everything is so foreseeable & predictable.
In this amazing universe
And then there’s you.

You

 You

The untamed rivers are running their course.
And emptying themselves into the expansive, tempestuous seas
Only to refill and repeat the process afresh.
Day after day and night after night.
Yes – day after day and night after night.
The great horned owl hoots.
And the deadliest jaws hunt
And the weak are chased down and devoured mercilessly
It’s the circle of life.
Day after day and night after night
The scorching sun rises in the east, and sets in the west.
And the sequin – silver stars appear in the night- time sky.
And we gaze up and stare with wonder
At Polaris, Sirius, Antares and Rigel
Without even blinking our eyes
And everything is so foreseeable & predictable.
In this amazing universe
And then there’s you.

Thursday, 18 February 2021

Wake up and smell the roses

 WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES

(A 4.45 am weekend thought )
Have you ever wondered why people behave the way they do?
Punching below their weight- intentionally!
being critical and confrontational,
While attempting to validate alleged grievances .
Are they just captious perfectionists?
Entangled in mystifying arguments with themselves?
Or nebby, boisterous, busybodies- acting on a whim?
Taking it upon themselves
to sweep the Augean stables clean.
Why do otherwise principled, right thinking, intelligent humans, behave irrationally?
Totally out of sync with their habitual, ethical selves
and think nothing of it.
Topic for a dissertation maybe?
Is it trepidation, apprehension, anxiety, over thinking?
Is it a, ‘yeah I am awesome syndrome’?
Or could it be an inflated ego, and over estimation of self-worth?
Is it one of these or an amalgamation of the above?
One minute all is quiet on the western front.
Music, peace, friends, laughter, tranquility-
and then without warning,
or so much as a, ‘by your leave’,
Or a, ‘may I please’
Pandemonium ensues and the world knows it .
Off they go on an irrevocable tangent.
Cursing the rainbow and cuddling serpents!
Spiralling out of control – frenzied, raving, and ranting
Refusing to listen to reason, logic, or even common sense.
They become unpredictable, unresponsive, ludicrous & irrational
Lashing out
And often throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Is it letting feelings override facts?
Is it decision paralysis?
Is it perception based on biases?
Or are they just befuddled, bewildered and punch- drunk?
Zoned out Angels can start to grow horns- can’t they?
Wake up and smell the roses!
Or the coffee if you will!
Life is all about choices.
About fulfilling purposes and accomplishing goals
Its an aspect of existence

Wake up and smell the roses

 WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES

(A 4.45 am weekend thought )
Have you ever wondered why people behave the way they do?
Punching below their weight- intentionally!
being critical and confrontational,
While attempting to validate alleged grievances .
Are they just captious perfectionists?
Entangled in mystifying arguments with themselves?
Or nebby, boisterous, busybodies- acting on a whim?
Taking it upon themselves
to sweep the Augean stables clean.
Why do otherwise principled, right thinking, intelligent humans, behave irrationally?
Totally out of sync with their habitual, ethical selves
and think nothing of it.
Topic for a dissertation maybe?
Is it trepidation, apprehension, anxiety, over thinking?
Is it a, ‘yeah I am awesome syndrome’?
Or could it be an inflated ego, and over estimation of self-worth?
Is it one of these or an amalgamation of the above?
One minute all is quiet on the western front.
Music, peace, friends, laughter, tranquility-
and then without warning,
or so much as a, ‘by your leave’,
Or a, ‘may I please’
Pandemonium ensues and the world knows it .
Off they go on an irrevocable tangent.
Cursing the rainbow and cuddling serpents!
Spiralling out of control – frenzied, raving, and ranting
Refusing to listen to reason, logic, or even common sense.
They become unpredictable, unresponsive, ludicrous & irrational
Lashing out
And often throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Is it letting feelings override facts?
Is it decision paralysis?
Is it perception based on biases?
Or are they just befuddled, bewildered and punch- drunk?
Zoned out Angels can start to grow horns- can’t they?
Wake up and smell the roses!
Or the coffee if you will!
Life is all about choices.
About fulfilling purposes and accomplishing goals
Its an aspect of existence

Tuesday, 16 February 2021

Workshops and me

 I am someone who does not like ‘Workshops ’. Let me elucidate – Workshops per se would be okay, if the process itself was revamped. Now, this is a very broad and general statement and has no reflection whatsoever on the company I work for, where the culture is exceedingly progressive & very different from the run of the mill. Not enjoying workshops may sound odd or strange, considering I am in the ‘education field’, and have been so for 40 years, but hear me out before you pass judgement. A great Workshop or Professional Development event is to supposed to refine skills, be simple, be fun, energize one, be an invigorating learning experience, and above all, motivate, and inspire the attendee to do better and think differently. However, for many employees, the world over, it is usually the opposite. More often than not, they come out feeling bored, disillusioned and even disgusted. The reason –a large number of PD’s that people attend are repetitive, passive, jargon heavy, tiresome, too simplistic, or just downright monotonous. It is often the case of ‘old wine in a new bottle’ and if I may add- not exactly, very palatable wine either! Now you may say that it is not workshops, which are a bad thing, but the resource persons who conduct them – for me it is the complete package. Here is a question, along with some advice to Educationists and others who may read this, as it pertains to all segments of the workforce. Why is so much of the professional development that people attend, such a waste of energy and resources? The number of person-hours that probably go down the drain in companies and institutions is such a criminal waste of time. I have, over the years, had this discussion with innumerable friends and colleagues, and almost all have had similar views. According to a recent survey, ‘the majority of PD is provided in a workshop model, and workshop models are inherently ineffective. This has been a perennial debate and the jury is still out on this one. It amounts to giving everyone the same information, regardless of their prior knowledge, skills, experience, and leaving it up to them to determine how, or if, it is implemented at all. The follow up is zilch. People have obviously heard of the word Differentiation. In 1999, the American educator, author and speaker, Carol Ann Tomlinson, wrote about the “Differentiated classroom- responding to the need of all learners” Over the years, we have seen how Differentiation continues to play an effective & substantial role in how pupils are taught, and it has proved a boom, to tens of thousands of pupils, especially those with a special educational need. Now what about adults in a PD classroom? If it has worked for children, then why won’t it work for adults? They could be bankers, teachers, marketing professionals or accountants – it does not matter and mark you, this is not rocket science. We would certainly not teach our students this way. In addition, if we do not expect our students to come to class at the same level and learn in the exact same way- so why do we expect it from others? It is about time managers and leaders started thinking differently. Prior to conducting a workshop or a PD session , it would be wise to take a survey of your staff to see what they know about a professional development topic, and how skilled they consider themselves in that area. I am an educationist, and hence I know that schools already have a sense of this, from knowing the teachers well and being in their classrooms regularly, but it is about time that all administrators, in diverse companies, realize, that getting prior reflective feedback from the intended participants is critical to the success of the PD as well. Educational institutions can do better too. This information will also then allow leaders to tailor this professional development session to meet the needs of the individual, designing smaller group sessions with flexible groupings to instruct them at their varying levels of readiness and need. Thus, the more experienced ones can get together to problem solve difficulties they might be having, or compare solutions while simultaneously sharing strategies and best practices. This way, participants of all readiness levels are meaningfully engaged, and the ensuing workshop becomes an enjoyable learning experience-, which was obviously the intention in the first place. When you work on the interest or need of the participants, they are more likely to be deeply engaged, making the work more productive -- just like with students in a school. In the classroom, we often have stronger students help their peers. Allow the workshop participants that have particular skill sets or experience, to run smaller group sessions. It provides leadership opportunities and develops a sense of ownership over the institutional improvement process. It is also worth considering that fact, that sometimes adults are more open to listening to someone in a similar position to himself or herself, than they are in taking directives from a senior administrator. I had the wonderful opportunity, while in my present company, to attend a Leadership course at The Tuck School of Business – part of the Graduate business school of Dartmouth College, an Ivy League research university in Hanover, New Hampshire. To say that I returned with a fresh perspective, not only on education, but also on life itself would be putting it mildly. The sessions were interactive, simplistic, thought provoking and fun, and it was time well spent. I feel if we truly practice what we preach where differentiation is concerned it will surely add value. If professional development is about growth and improvement then leaders must first strive to improve the process itself.

Workshops and me

 I am someone who does not like ‘Workshops ’. Let me elucidate – Workshops per se would be okay, if the process itself was revamped. Now, this is a very broad and general statement and has no reflection whatsoever on the company I work for, where the culture is exceedingly progressive & very different from the run of the mill. Not enjoying workshops may sound odd or strange, considering I am in the ‘education field’, and have been so for 40 years, but hear me out before you pass judgement. A great Workshop or Professional Development event is to supposed to refine skills, be simple, be fun, energize one, be an invigorating learning experience, and above all, motivate, and inspire the attendee to do better and think differently. However, for many employees, the world over, it is usually the opposite. More often than not, they come out feeling bored, disillusioned and even disgusted. The reason –a large number of PD’s that people attend are repetitive, passive, jargon heavy, tiresome, too simplistic, or just downright monotonous. It is often the case of ‘old wine in a new bottle’ and if I may add- not exactly, very palatable wine either! Now you may say that it is not workshops, which are a bad thing, but the resource persons who conduct them – for me it is the complete package. Here is a question, along with some advice to Educationists and others who may read this, as it pertains to all segments of the workforce. Why is so much of the professional development that people attend, such a waste of energy and resources? The number of person-hours that probably go down the drain in companies and institutions is such a criminal waste of time. I have, over the years, had this discussion with innumerable friends and colleagues, and almost all have had similar views. According to a recent survey, ‘the majority of PD is provided in a workshop model, and workshop models are inherently ineffective. This has been a perennial debate and the jury is still out on this one. It amounts to giving everyone the same information, regardless of their prior knowledge, skills, experience, and leaving it up to them to determine how, or if, it is implemented at all. The follow up is zilch. People have obviously heard of the word Differentiation. In 1999, the American educator, author and speaker, Carol Ann Tomlinson, wrote about the “Differentiated classroom- responding to the need of all learners” Over the years, we have seen how Differentiation continues to play an effective & substantial role in how pupils are taught, and it has proved a boom, to tens of thousands of pupils, especially those with a special educational need. Now what about adults in a PD classroom? If it has worked for children, then why won’t it work for adults? They could be bankers, teachers, marketing professionals or accountants – it does not matter and mark you, this is not rocket science. We would certainly not teach our students this way. In addition, if we do not expect our students to come to class at the same level and learn in the exact same way- so why do we expect it from others? It is about time managers and leaders started thinking differently. Prior to conducting a workshop or a PD session , it would be wise to take a survey of your staff to see what they know about a professional development topic, and how skilled they consider themselves in that area. I am an educationist, and hence I know that schools already have a sense of this, from knowing the teachers well and being in their classrooms regularly, but it is about time that all administrators, in diverse companies, realize, that getting prior reflective feedback from the intended participants is critical to the success of the PD as well. Educational institutions can do better too. This information will also then allow leaders to tailor this professional development session to meet the needs of the individual, designing smaller group sessions with flexible groupings to instruct them at their varying levels of readiness and need. Thus, the more experienced ones can get together to problem solve difficulties they might be having, or compare solutions while simultaneously sharing strategies and best practices. This way, participants of all readiness levels are meaningfully engaged, and the ensuing workshop becomes an enjoyable learning experience-, which was obviously the intention in the first place. When you work on the interest or need of the participants, they are more likely to be deeply engaged, making the work more productive -- just like with students in a school. In the classroom, we often have stronger students help their peers. Allow the workshop participants that have particular skill sets or experience, to run smaller group sessions. It provides leadership opportunities and develops a sense of ownership over the institutional improvement process. It is also worth considering that fact, that sometimes adults are more open to listening to someone in a similar position to himself or herself, than they are in taking directives from a senior administrator. I had the wonderful opportunity, while in my present company, to attend a Leadership course at The Tuck School of Business – part of the Graduate business school of Dartmouth College, an Ivy League research university in Hanover, New Hampshire. To say that I returned with a fresh perspective, not only on education, but also on life itself would be putting it mildly. The sessions were interactive, simplistic, thought provoking and fun, and it was time well spent. I feel if we truly practice what we preach where differentiation is concerned it will surely add value. If professional development is about growth and improvement then leaders must first strive to improve the process itself.

Friday, 12 February 2021

A night spent elsewhere

 Disadvantages of suddenly having to spend the night in someone else's house.

1. You wake up confused as to where you are .

2. You feel disoriented. 

3. You can never find the light switches.

4. The air-conditioning was freezing

5. There is urgent need for an additional blanket but you can't wake them up at 2 am can you ?

6. You are not sure if the door leads to the toilet or their bedroom

7. A strange cat jumps on your bed at 5 am and makes strange gurgling sounds -  you are not sure whether to pet it, back off or get under the covers and play dead.

8. You need a pair of slippers as the floor is freezing but you can't find them 

9. Being a morning person you go downstairs to the kitchen to make a cup of tea. 

10. There are umpteen cupboards so the search begins for the tea leaves and sugar. You finally find it in the last cupboard you open. It's not the tea you are used to, so you have to just make do. 

11. The gas stove is not like the one at home, so causing an explosion is a distinct possibility 

12. Then you wonder where the saucepan to boil the water is and when you find the draw with the vessels, one is not sure as to which one to use.

13. Tea in hand it's now a search for the front door key to pick up the morning newspapers.

14. By now the cat is wondering as to who you are, but is a trifle friendly, so it keeps brushing against you and almost tripping you up at every step. Breaking a bone is not my idea of a lovely morning so being extra careful is key to survival 

15. There are a few bunches of keys. Murphy's law steps in and the 26th key finally gets the front  door open. 

16. There are  no newspapers  but instead you are staring at a very  large grey Tom  cat. 

17. The house cat rushes out and there is snarling match which wakes the neighbours. 

18. They open their balcony window and look down at the cats and me with unadulterated disgust written all over their faces. I step back into the house feeling rather sheepish 

19. Meanwhile the others in the house wake up one by one and come down to check out the commotion . Their comments are unflattering and do nothing to soothe my jarred nerves.

20. The 2 cats have chased each other up and down the street and a third has joined them . They seem to be having a jolly good time. 

21. My tea is cold by now and I am disgusted. 

22. Everyone goes back to bed while muttering about why I got up so early. 

23. I try to tell them I am a morning person 

24. I need to make myself another cup of tea.

25 . The cat is back home  and now he is snuggling up to me as I key this in .

26. I guess I am a cat person too.