Friday musings.... As a very young boy I vividly remember my aunt ( lived in a joint family ) teaching my cousins and me to be responsible. So that meant that we made our beds & learnt to sweep and swab the house - there were no vacuum cleaners back then. At times we washed the rooms on summer afternoons and enjoyed the fun. I remember cleaning cobwebs with a broom attached to a long pole. The ceiling was high. We tidied the rooms , including the kitchen after meals . Oh yes , after a bath we washed the toilet and left it spotless. There were three of us and we competed to see who did the best cleaning . Yes we still had to study and complete our homework by ourselves . Walking to buy groceries or stuff like that was literally taken in my stride. Gardening took up time and we maintained a pretty decent flower garden without any outside help. A tip of 8 annas or 50 paise now and then was a big deal. We were taught to fry an egg, make an omelette , make toast , tea and coffee too. By observing and helping, we learnt to bake ! Stitching on buttons and putting up a hem were part of our training too. I believe children must be taught these things early on in life . It won't harm them in any way. I don't see this happening very often . Are you bringing them up to face the world head on ? Are you ashamed to tell your friends that your children help with the house work? Can they do for themselves? As a couple , you should ask yourselves these pertinent questions . Teach them now . You will never regret it. And do remember- it's not only girls who must be taught house work. Boys must learn as well.

Friday musings.... As a very young boy I vividly remember my aunt ( lived in a joint family ) teaching my cousins and me to be responsible. So that meant that we made our beds & learnt to sweep and swab the house - there were no vacuum cleaners back then. At times we washed the rooms on summer afternoons and enjoyed the fun. I remember cleaning cobwebs with a broom attached to a long pole. The ceiling was high. We tidied the rooms , including the kitchen after meals . Oh yes , after a bath we washed the toilet and left it spotless. There were three of us and we competed to see who did the best cleaning . Yes we still had to study and complete our homework by ourselves . Walking to buy groceries or stuff like that was literally taken in my stride. Gardening took up time and we maintained a pretty decent flower garden without any outside help. A tip of 8 annas or 50 paise now and then was a big deal. We were taught to fry an egg, make an omelette , make toast , tea and coffee too. By observing and helping, we learnt to bake ! Stitching on buttons and putting up a hem were part of our training too. I believe children must be taught these things early on in life . It won't harm them in any way. I don't see this happening very often . Are you bringing them up to face the world head on ? Are you ashamed to tell your friends that your children help with the house work? Can they do for themselves? As a couple , you should ask yourselves these pertinent questions . Teach them now . You will never regret it. And do remember- it's not only girls who must be taught house work. Boys must learn as well.

Nothing political about this

Silly musings....... Car sales are sinking like never before, capital investments have plunged and global investors are a disillusioned lot. Jobs are scarce and unemployment is on the rise. The banking system leaves plenty to be desired and oil prices have increased. The minorities are worried about what may befall them and the roads are in such a mess that they resemble the moon. The less said about inflation the better- a hundred rupees just about gets you a semi decent cup of coffee. The borders are tense and war cannot be written off. Innumerable pre election promises have been forgotten and everyone is confused. Then there is the news that infiltration will cause an attack in some parts of the country . A distraction may do the trick say the powers that be . We cannot afford to let the comman man get disillusioned can we? A ploy is the answer. Something so disturbing that it will get people talking. Maybe if Hindi is imposed all over it will cure all ills. Or maybe at least it will get people so engrossed in that debate that all else will be either forgotten or put on the back burner for some time. I am not into politics and I don't support any party . Just a common Indian with a thought on my mind . Am thinking out loud . Are you too?

Nothing political about this

Silly musings....... Car sales are sinking like never before, capital investments have plunged and global investors are a disillusioned lot. Jobs are scarce and unemployment is on the rise. The banking system leaves plenty to be desired and oil prices have increased. The minorities are worried about what may befall them and the roads are in such a mess that they resemble the moon. The less said about inflation the better- a hundred rupees just about gets you a semi decent cup of coffee. The borders are tense and war cannot be written off. Innumerable pre election promises have been forgotten and everyone is confused. Then there is the news that infiltration will cause an attack in some parts of the country . A distraction may do the trick say the powers that be . We cannot afford to let the comman man get disillusioned can we? A ploy is the answer. Something so disturbing that it will get people talking. Maybe if Hindi is imposed all over it will cure all ills. Or maybe at least it will get people so engrossed in that debate that all else will be either forgotten or put on the back burner for some time. I am not into politics and I don't support any party . Just a common Indian with a thought on my mind . Am thinking out loud . Are you too?

Collectables

An arctophilist collects teddy bears, a deltiologist collects postcards, a numismatist collects coins, a vecturist collects subway tokens and a clock collector is a horologist.

I guess I am just a very ordinary collector – nothing fancy. Over the years I have collected anything that took my fancy .

Early memories of my childhood and I vividly remember a ‘cabinet of curiosities’ in our home. Probably that  seed germinated in my infant brain and I began collecting as well.

The first thing I collected was ‘holy pictures’.  I was around 10 years old when   pictures of saints and the like took my fancy and I had a small tin sweet box with my prized possessions.  I had about one hundred and fifty ‘Holy pictures’ and I even exchanged the same with friends when I had duplicates. I often approached priests, nuns and religious brothers who willingly added to my collection. Although money was not plentiful by any means, I managed to purchase a few special holy pictures from a religious bookstall in the city. No clue where that collection went.

Playing marbles then became a craze in middle school and I had hundreds of them in a large glass jar. I often counted them and even washed them on weekends. Spreading them out on my bed gave me immense pleasure.  (I do not see anyone playing marbles now). It was a great hobby because playing allowed for individual or group participation. The varied types, styles, sizes, and colors of the marbles lent a unique look to my collection. Taking them to school in my pocket was fun as well.  What was not very funny was when they fell out of my  pocket during class time and were confiscated by the teachers who I was sure took them home for their kids to play with .

More often than not, as I was not a very good player, I would return home despondent having lost most or all the marbles I had taken to school in the morning.

 

I must have been around 14 when my grandfather presented me with a stamp album and a few boxes of old stamps.  They lay in the house for a few years and I never even looked at them.

Then one day I came across them in an old tin trunk & I eagerly began sorting them out and placing them in the album. Along with stamps I began collecting ‘First day covers’ as well. Someone had mentioned that stamps could make me a rich man and I guess that spurred me on.

Whenever I read about the release of a new stamp, I would rush to the post office, line up with hundreds of other philatelists and purchase a few stamps and a first day cover or two. We then had to line up again and get the covers  stamped! My collection grew to a point and then I guess other things took my fancy and the stamp collection died a natural death and I forgot about becoming rich!

 I must add that I was later presented with thousands of very old stamps by an uncle – they  are still in my possession and  I am told , could fetch a fortune  . Therefore, I do still have a chance!

It was then key chains – a few hundred of them took up place in a cupboard draw. For a year or so, I would change my key chain daily!

A few other collections may surprise you, make you cringe  or even smile.

Butterflies – Butterflies are beautiful to look at, and I enjoyed preserving multiple species to admire their wing patterns. I would find dead butterflies in the garden   or capture one that I wanted to save. I would then put it in a bottle and seal it up for a few hours (sounds so cruel now). I would then put it between the pages of a thick dictionary and that was how I collected them!  I knew that there were more professional way of displaying them but I guess the way I did it was enough for me.

I had a similar collection of leaves.  I would get hold of a good leaf, wash and dry it and then just put it between the pages of a thick book. Soon all that would be left would be the skeleton of the leaf and it looked pretty and artistic! I had quite a few leaves in various books.

After I began working, I once went for a garage sale & bought a pair of peg tables in the shape of elephants from a very well-known astrologer in India. Yes, you probably guessed it right – that started an elephant collection, which has grown. We now have around 80 small elephants from various parts of the world.

I then shifted to the UAE & had the opportunity and means to travel a little more - bells took our fancy and so it was bells from all over.

Once on a visit to Germany I fell in love with a very beautiful beer mug that I spotted in a sae on the banks of the Rhine – that bred a small collection of beautiful mugs that now fill a showcase in our home.

My present collection of cuff links and watches are small but they are my prized possessions now.

Relatives and friends have added to the various collections over the years   and at times it is the topic of family jokes as well but who cares.

I have stopped adding collectables now and am planning to declutter but have not made a serious effort to do so.

Marie Kondo inspired me but one needs time to declutter!!

It will happen someday but till then let me enjoy these simple pleasures.

 

 

 

Collectables

An arctophilist collects teddy bears, a deltiologist collects postcards, a numismatist collects coins, a vecturist collects subway tokens and a clock collector is a horologist.

I guess I am just a very ordinary collector – nothing fancy. Over the years I have collected anything that took my fancy .

Early memories of my childhood and I vividly remember a ‘cabinet of curiosities’ in our home. Probably that  seed germinated in my infant brain and I began collecting as well.

The first thing I collected was ‘holy pictures’.  I was around 10 years old when   pictures of saints and the like took my fancy and I had a small tin sweet box with my prized possessions.  I had about one hundred and fifty ‘Holy pictures’ and I even exchanged the same with friends when I had duplicates. I often approached priests, nuns and religious brothers who willingly added to my collection. Although money was not plentiful by any means, I managed to purchase a few special holy pictures from a religious bookstall in the city. No clue where that collection went.

Playing marbles then became a craze in middle school and I had hundreds of them in a large glass jar. I often counted them and even washed them on weekends. Spreading them out on my bed gave me immense pleasure.  (I do not see anyone playing marbles now). It was a great hobby because playing allowed for individual or group participation. The varied types, styles, sizes, and colors of the marbles lent a unique look to my collection. Taking them to school in my pocket was fun as well.  What was not very funny was when they fell out of my  pocket during class time and were confiscated by the teachers who I was sure took them home for their kids to play with .

More often than not, as I was not a very good player, I would return home despondent having lost most or all the marbles I had taken to school in the morning.

 

I must have been around 14 when my grandfather presented me with a stamp album and a few boxes of old stamps.  They lay in the house for a few years and I never even looked at them.

Then one day I came across them in an old tin trunk & I eagerly began sorting them out and placing them in the album. Along with stamps I began collecting ‘First day covers’ as well. Someone had mentioned that stamps could make me a rich man and I guess that spurred me on.

Whenever I read about the release of a new stamp, I would rush to the post office, line up with hundreds of other philatelists and purchase a few stamps and a first day cover or two. We then had to line up again and get the covers  stamped! My collection grew to a point and then I guess other things took my fancy and the stamp collection died a natural death and I forgot about becoming rich!

 I must add that I was later presented with thousands of very old stamps by an uncle – they  are still in my possession and  I am told , could fetch a fortune  . Therefore, I do still have a chance!

It was then key chains – a few hundred of them took up place in a cupboard draw. For a year or so, I would change my key chain daily!

A few other collections may surprise you, make you cringe  or even smile.

Butterflies – Butterflies are beautiful to look at, and I enjoyed preserving multiple species to admire their wing patterns. I would find dead butterflies in the garden   or capture one that I wanted to save. I would then put it in a bottle and seal it up for a few hours (sounds so cruel now). I would then put it between the pages of a thick dictionary and that was how I collected them!  I knew that there were more professional way of displaying them but I guess the way I did it was enough for me.

I had a similar collection of leaves.  I would get hold of a good leaf, wash and dry it and then just put it between the pages of a thick book. Soon all that would be left would be the skeleton of the leaf and it looked pretty and artistic! I had quite a few leaves in various books.

After I began working, I once went for a garage sale & bought a pair of peg tables in the shape of elephants from a very well-known astrologer in India. Yes, you probably guessed it right – that started an elephant collection, which has grown. We now have around 80 small elephants from various parts of the world.

I then shifted to the UAE & had the opportunity and means to travel a little more - bells took our fancy and so it was bells from all over.

Once on a visit to Germany I fell in love with a very beautiful beer mug that I spotted in a sae on the banks of the Rhine – that bred a small collection of beautiful mugs that now fill a showcase in our home.

My present collection of cuff links and watches are small but they are my prized possessions now.

Relatives and friends have added to the various collections over the years   and at times it is the topic of family jokes as well but who cares.

I have stopped adding collectables now and am planning to declutter but have not made a serious effort to do so.

Marie Kondo inspired me but one needs time to declutter!!

It will happen someday but till then let me enjoy these simple pleasures.

 

 

 

Are snakes proliferating?
At first one could only find them in forests and grassy areas , in drains  or broken down buildings .
Now things are rather  different. They have been seen in offices , organizations, homes and a myriad other places .
Some are harmless. You see them and thus you know they are around but you know they can't harm you in any way . Cowardly by nature .
 Others are slightly more adventurous & dangerous. They may not strike or chase openly  but if they get the opportunity they will attempt to bite and cause pain and suffering . However , they are not venomous. 
Then there are the venomous kinds. They lie in wait  and bite deeply if the opportunity presents  itself . Their bite is lethal and at times there is no antidote available at that moment.
 They are the opportunists and you need to be very careful of them . They are often in disguise as well- often so well dressed and supposedly cultured that it's unbelievable !!
They will cause Grevious  harm if they can.

THEN YOU HAVE THE REAL SNAKES .

These are by and large peaceful creature s and will only attack if you stamp on or startle them. 99% will never attack if unprovoked. 

 So ends this morning's lesson .