A Year Older, A Heart Fuller: Reflections on Joy, Purpose, and Life’s Journey
On my birthday this year, I find myself reflecting on the journey so far and cherishing the people and moments that matter most. From a young age, I was curious, eager to explore, and ready to make the most of every opportunity. I was inspired by my mother — honest, hard-working, sincere, and always truthful. Watching her navigate life with integrity showed me that character, effort, and kindness matter more than circumstances. I even dreamed of becoming a priest — not out of a calling, but because I saw priests living comfortably, respected, and being called “Father” everywhere they went. I thought, “Why not me?” Life had other plans — and a better sense of humor.
Music became my first teacher. Playing drums, strumming the guitar, and singing taught me that joy isn’t something that happens by chance — it’s something you cultivate. Part-time gigs and small earnings showed me that music is both a delight and a teacher. Each rhythm and melody brought laughter, camaraderie, and freedom that made life vibrant.
Purpose naturally followed. Teaching became my calling. I took a small loan to pursue my studies, started as a young teacher, and over the decades moved into leadership — first as a headmaster, then principal, and later as a senior administrator and mentor. Purpose gave my work direction and meaning. Leadership is never a solo act. I’ve been fortunate to be surrounded by talented, committed people who made everything possible. I often joke that my teams made me look good — and they did. Watching those I mentored rise to senior leadership roles has been one of life’s greatest rewards. Over the years, I have taught thousands of pupils, many of whom are still in touch, which fills me with joy and a sense of continuity. Through talks, TED presentations, blogs, and newspaper articles, I’ve loved inspiring others to find their own path and purpose.
Even the small journeys along the way have been part of the adventure. As a teen I started commuting on a ladies’ cycle because that was all I had, then moved on to a second-hand gents’ bike, a scooter, and later a variety of cars. Now I enjoy the comfort and safety of my current vehicle — not bad for someone who started on two wheels meant for someone else!
Joy and purpose are amplified by gratitude. I notice small miracles: sunlight streaming through a window, the feel of earth in my garden, a cat purring on my lap, the sparkle in a grandchild’s eye, the comfort of reading the newspapers, or a conversation with a close friend. Faith reminds me that life itself is a gift, fleeting and precious. Family, a small circle of friends, simple pleasures, and visits to new countries are constant reminders of life’s richness.
I have often been told that I haven’t changed over the years — and I find myself thinking, why should I? The core of who I am, my values and passions, has always guided me.
Looking back, my life has been shaped not by inheritance but by choices — to work hard, play music, teach, mentor, inspire, laugh, and embrace opportunities. Hard work, commitment, and kindness have been my compass. Joy, purpose, and gratitude are threads woven together, creating a life rich in meaning and connection.
Learning never stops. Even now, I keep discovering new things — from reading and writing to observing the world and listening to those around me. Being in education has its advantages: youth surround you, their energy and curiosity constantly challenge and inspire you, keeping the mind young.
Life continues to surprise me. There are still songs to play, rides to enjoy, lessons to learn, laughter to share, and stories to tell. Yet living well demands seriousness: there are no shortcuts to growth. Strive, work hard and smart, be accountable, and deliver. Make a difference where you can, adapt to the world as it is, and accept that you can’t always have your way. Learn when to stand your ground and when to keep your peace. Embracing these lessons builds resilience, character, and the ability to contribute meaningfully to something greater than yourself.
A life well lived is one filled with joy, purpose, gratitude, and the people who matter most. To live fully is to embrace these gifts — and to leave the world a little better than you found it. That is my guide, my mission, and my gift.
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