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Saturday, 3 December 2022

Christmas is round the corner

 Listening to Christmas carols


Somehow makes me sentimental.


But they are a staple in December. 


Jim Reeves, Daniel O'donnell


And the rest.


Today was very relaxing 


In the middle of an extended break


No suit and tie for once.


Sitting out in the morning sun 


Pottering around the little garden


While planning what to bake


How and when .




Ingredients to be sourced


And preparations to be made.


Nothing too fancy this year.


So..


Will I bake or will she?


Doing it together is what often happens 


Followed by arguments 


As to the method to use


The weight of ingredients 


And what to mix first!




Was thinking back a few decades


When people sent and received


Innumerable Christmas cards 


And of the wizzened up postman 


who did a big 'Salam' on Christmas morning


When he delivered the last few cards


And got a 'baksheeh' 


And a plate of goodies.


He was followed by the 'dhobi' 


And a few faithful helpers.




We would string up the Christmas cards


Across the mantlepiece. 


And count them too


They added to the Christmasy feeling. 




When I was a young brat,


Helping mince the peels


And decorate the tree


Was my job- partly .


Fun times.


Some of you may not know what 


a mincer is or a mantlepiece either !


It doesn't matter .


Those are memories I always cherish.




Xmas and New years 


Makes me nostalgic 


And I think of you !




And please don't let me start


On the 'Auld lang syne'


Not a big fan of it either.


I've seen people almost 'tear up' 




The holiday season


Is round the corner


Good cheer and good wishes.

Sunday, 27 November 2022

Shampoo vs conditioner

 What's with these companies that make Shampoo and conditioner? - truly exasperating.


So imagine this scene . 


I am having a bath ( now don't over imagine). There is water streaming in my eyes. The toilet is steamy ,as I like the water hot. It's like a steam room in there. 


I then decide that I need to shampoo my hair. 


There are a few shampoo and conditioner bottles for me to choose from.


However, these manufacturers ensure that the words ' Shampoo' & ' Conditioner ' are never printed in bold print. They are in a small indecipherable print and the lightest shade possible.


So here am I in a steamy toilet, obviously not wearing spectacles- don't forget the water - squinting to read whether it's shampoo or conditioner.


It's next to impossible.


Often I lather in conditioner first. Then, realising the blunder, I rinse it out and attempt to use another bottle. If I am lucky it's shampoo. Then back to conditioner again.


Can they not print the words clearly? 


So irritating . 


It's even worse in hotels. 


There are 3 bottles in a line. Same size and same colour.


One is shampoo, one is conditioner and the third - shower gel. 


If that's not confusing then what is - especially when you are rushing to get ready for a meeting !

Saturday, 19 November 2022

An exotic recepie

 How did I never hear of this before. It's easy and will save you money every month. 

Above all, it's quick , easy and anyone can make it 

Take 3 spoons of sugar. 

1 spoon of baking soda

6 red chillies.

A pinch of talcum powder

A half spoon turmeric

2 cloves 

A half cup balsamic vinegar

2 table spoons honey

2 table spoons brandy.

2 pods of garlic 

And a cup of milk.

Put in a pan and boil on a slow fire for 10 minutes . Keep stirring clockwise. 

You will see the mixture turning frothy and thickening. 

Add a dash of mustard .

This will cause it to rise abruptly so be careful .

Strain through a muslin cloth .

Cool down.


Put in the fridge till cold.


Then add nut meg and 2 teaspoonful of vanilla essence.

You will now have a creamy paste.

Next get a sheet of aluminium foil and spread evenly over - use a large plate.

Now freeze .

Not sure what you will do with this 

If you have read till here you know precious little about cooking , baking or whatever.

Follow me for more exotic recipes.

Saturday, 12 November 2022

A romantic rendezvous

 Early morning on Juhu Beach


This cute young couple

All giggly and in their twenties

Obviously came for a morning rendezvous. 

They spread their little mat on the beach

It was flowery and rather pretty.

Their carry bag with a few packets 

Of some savoury items was unloaded

Off his back.


From her purse she produced 

A bottle of Sprite

Which she then gingerly poured

Into two plastic glasses.

She offered him one 

And they both sipped simultaneously. 


He slipped an arm round her slender shoulders and she snuggled closer

Resting  her head on the side of his arm

I looked at them and smiled

So did another elderly couple passing bye.


The gentle waves danced around their feet

Love was in the air.


Then out of nowhere 

Like a bolt from the blue

A football came zooming in

Probably intentional

Because that's how many loving couples

Are told not to become

Too comfortable or too romantic

In these areas!


The ball hit him on the back of his head.

The glass flew from his hand 

Spilling the liquid over her pretty pink outfit.


He got a bad knock 

And collapsed in a heap

But being the man of the moment

He jumped up

Dusted himself off

And looked angrily around for the culprit.


About fifteen urchins sniggered back at him.

Their arrogance and defiance 

Was palpable.

I expected a confrontation. 

However...

Allowing her to be the better judge 

They packed up and walked away 

A trifle embarrassed

I felt for them

For their innocence 

And their budding love life.


Thus ended their romance for the day. 

What a morning !

Wednesday, 26 October 2022

Have you ever

 Have you ever………


Have you ever opened up to the world

About your hopes, your dreams, your aspirations, your fears, your life?

Do people know the real you

Fragile and unmasked?

Are you apprehensive of being thought of differently if they do?

Looked at contemptuously? 

Being scorned or ridiculed? 


Would it make a significant difference to the life you live? 

Would you lose friends, gain admirers, or both-

For telling it as it is- raw and unfiltered?

Would it shake your confidence to such an extent   

That you end up alone and in therapy?


Or could you tell them your story audaciously, 

Smile contentedly,

And then sit back confidently,

While a raucous drama unfolds

Before your very eyes? 


The self-appointed actors would be gleeful

The dialogues often terse

The audience - aghast.

There would probably be umpteen 

Twists in the tale

With curveballs aplenty!

But life would go on …...

Our education system

 Jeremy Bentham, (1748-1832) jurist, philosopher, legal reformer, economist, and utilitarian once said, “There are two types of people in the world- those who divide everything in the world, into two kinds of things, and those who don't.”

Similarly, I believe there are two types of teachers in the world- Those that make a difference in a pupil’s life, and those who don’t. The same goes for schools. 

I had quite a few amazing teachers, whom I remember fondly.  One or two, however, left a lasting impression and made a difference in my life. I guess, what made them stand out is, that they were true to their profession – not necessarily highly qualified, but extremely passionate about what they were doing, and masters of their subject. When they explained something – one understood and never forgot.   Their ardour and passion was truly infectious. 

Now, this is a question I ask so many working people today – ‘Do you love what you do”? It’s something we all need to think seriously about.  I have often heard people say, ‘I hate my job’.

If given the opportunity to start all over again, I am positive I would choose the same profession, because I love it, and it has given me so much more, besides money. 

I started teaching in 1980- have been in education ever since, and still enjoy my job although, unfortunately, I don’t teach anymore in the true sense of the word. I mentor, and coach, while attempting to motivate and inspire teachers and school leaders, but nothing can replace the energy in a classroom of forty-plus pupils, all eager to have a good time! 

 I have worked alongside passionate, patient, intelligent, educators. I have seen energy, engagement, interaction, collaboration, and excellent communication at close quarters.  There have been lifelong learners and really kind, understanding adults who have been ready to listen while answering the vaguest of questions, from inquisitive pupils.

However, like many others, education is a challenging profession where you don’t only have to keep pace as a teacher, but attempt to be one step ahead. You can’t play catch up – you must lead the pack, who will always be hot on your heels. There is no time for slacking, lest you be left behind.

But hasn’t that always been the case? I remember teaching and interacting with extremely intelligent pupils in The Boys High School, Allahabad, The Bishop’s School in Pune, and in both Modern High and The Millennium School in Dubai. When in India, Encyclopedia Britannica often came to my rescue, and so did teachers and administrators, more learned and experienced than me. That helped me to always go to class well-prepared, and in control. Yes, pupils did stump me with tricky questions at times, but I made sure to return the next day with the correct answer. 

I have some questions on my mind …….

How effectively are pupils being educated today?

 There are multifarious things to consider, and times are changing rapidly.

Are parents and teachers still shouting instructions?

Are teaching methodologies changing for the better?

Are the present-day curricula suitable, and are they being modified when found necessary?

Are classes pupil-centric and student-led? 

Is ‘teacher talk’ reducing or at least being kept to the minimum? 

Is progress visible and quantifiable?

Are parents involved in their ward’s education?

What about care and support? Are pupils safe?

Are we conducting background checks on teachers before appointing them?

Do children find time to play? By play, I mean ‘play outside and run, jump, skip, get scraped and bruised’?

What about parents fearing that something awful will happen to their wards if they get into an argument or fight with the neighbor’s children? 

Is play unsupervised? What about ‘helicopter parenting?  

Are we responsible for bringing up nervous, anxious kids?

 Are we in the midst of an epidemic of anxiety?  

 Are music, dance, and drama given sufficient importance in our schools?

Good pedagogy is inclusive - Are our schools truly inclusive? 

Are we getting into a quagmire of over-testing, excessive benchmarking, and comparing?


So much has changed since I first went into a classroom as a teacher forty odd years ago - Has our education system kept pace? Are we educators keeping pace?

Is the entire education system, the world over, crying out for a drastic overhaul? 

Can you overhaul a broken system? Is just tweaking it sufficient, or do we need to take a bold step & reinvent it, to get ahead of the times? 

The questions are varied and many of the probably answers, vague. 

I often read about panels of experts meeting to deliberate on how to improve student performance, but their discussions are primarily focused on benchmarks & test scores. Here is my point – while both are definitely principal indicators of academic progress and attainment, they are certainly not of paramount importance. 

 Universities and Colleges weigh test scores very differently, and no matter which college you're applying to, test scores are more often than not, not the overriding factor. Colleges give a lot of weight to grades and the rigor of your classes.

For decades now, schools have concentrated on the three C’s – Conformity, Compliance, and Competition, although it is a well-known fact, that life is all about diversity! Our planet thrives on diversity and it is the hallmark of human existence.  Human intelligence does not equal academic ability, and while we shout from the rooftops about differentiation, our education system seems to be based on standardization, and thereby hangs a tale. 

Gone are the days when teaching was a monologue – today learning is a conversation.  More personalized, self-paced, and self-directed teaching and learning is the need of the hour. Pupils are even more curious than before. Literally and figuratively speaking, they have the world at their fingertips. Our one size fits all curriculum, on the other hand, does very little for creativity. “If you look at a list of skills and content areas that teachers are expected to cover, creativity rarely gets top billing, although research is showing, that creativity isn’t just great to have, it’s an essential human skill — perhaps even an evolutionary imperative, in our technology-driven world”. 

It motivates pupils to learn, lights up the brain while spurring emotional development, often ignites a spark in hard-to-reach and easily bored pupils, and is an essential job skill for the future. One distinct and visible positive that is being seen more frequently now, is forward thinking schools, led by enlightened leaders, that are moving away from the transactional methods of instruction, toward a more relational approach to teaching & learning, with flexible classrooms, paired with ever more robust and immersive virtual environments.

Talk to pupils at random, and one strand is usually perceptible in the underbelly of the conversation- ‘they feel stifled’. 

It’s not that they don’t love to learn- it’s not that they don’t love their school or their teachers – it’s just that they are definitely not enamoured the system. They don’t find it student-friendly, it does not motivate or inspire them, it’s impersonal, artificial, and tends to cramp their natural instincts.  No wonder, a few million pupils drop out of school every year – alarming, to say the very least.   

We need to put kids in a real-world, authentic learning environment during the school day, and provide them with the tools they need, to be successful.   Technology is the language children of today speak, and something they thrive on and enjoy. 

I vividly remember attending a leadership program at The Tuck Business school at Dartmouth, a few years ago. A learned speaker picked up a mobile phone and asked as to how many of us allowed pupils to carry phones into the classroom. No hands were raised. He said he was utterly surprised, and predicted that in a few years the only things pupils would take into classrooms and lecture halls would be mobile devices – prophetic words indeed.  

I doubt anyone expected the ‘internet’ or the world wide web, or even thought about something like this a few decades ago, and here we are today, with it impacting every facet of our existence.  So, what are we predicting for education thirty or fifty years from now? Frankly, no one has a clue and that’s no surprise!

In one of his famed Ted talks, Sir Ken Robinson tells us about a chat he had with Paul McCartney of The Beatles fame. Paul told him that he was in the same school as George Harrison, and the music teacher thought they had no talent worthy of note! 

When the incomparable Elvis Presley was in school, he applied to join the ‘Glee club’ and was rejected, as they felt his voice was not suitable.   

The same thing continues to happen even today – very often our “normal” educational system fails to see and feed a student’s potential.  In fact, far too often, the potential is practically squashed and brilliance goes abegging.  

So where do we go from here?

“While there are certainly inherent benefits of traditional rote learning and using standardized benchmarking & testing as a measure of performance, we know the next generation will need far more abstract and interchangeable skills; from fighting climate change to keeping up with the global digital revolution, the future generation of problem solvers will need to overcome some of the world’s toughest obstacles, by thinking in new and creative ways with bold ideas and the determination to challenge the impossible”. UNESCO study.

One thing is for certain, and this is no rocket science – If schools leave pupils with a neutral or negative footprint, they have no chance of success, and future generations will have every reason to complain, that they were shortchanged by the system.

Today, as educators, we are ethically obligated to serve the learning needs of all children. Hence, in order to do the same,d  it becomes  our moral duty to fight for change, or go down the drain with the flow.

Saturday, 15 October 2022

Not everybody

 Not everybody wants to see you win

Not everybody is happy at your success

But win, succeed and be proud.

Hold your head up high

Because you deserve the adulation

And the accolades

Even if its just you

Giving it to yourself.


Yes we need to pat ourselves

On the back from time to time

And say 'well done'

While smiling into the mirror

Without waiting for external validation.


To expect praise 

Just because you know you deserve it

Is like willing it to rain

When your fields are parched.

It should happen

It could happen

But usually it's wishfull thinking 

And it doesn't. 

What then?

Wither away and perish? 

No . 

You must learn to water your fields yourself. 

Or else die waiting.